Christian Hubby’s Performance Evaluation

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  1. Garrett says:

    Great post for self reflection, however, asking wives to evaluate the husband I would not agree with. Why? because the husband is the head of the home and the wife must be submissive. I do not think evaluating their husbands on his successes or failures in this is being submissive. So may I suggest husbands evaluate yourselves in the light of the Word, where see yourself falling short pray for help ask for help from your Pastor or someone else you trust and respect in the Church Family, perhaps you could ask your wife to pray for you where you find yourself weak. Wives if you do this evaluation and see where your husband is weak, be submissive still and pray for him.

  2. Thea says:

    Perhaps Garrett is missing the point. A husband who is weak in the points raised in the post is typically also not the type who is good at self-evaluation. He is passive, and quite willing to continue without major changes on his part. It takes someone else to point these things out to him, and preferably someone who loves him enough to be kind about it. Pointing out a husband’s weaknesses to him is not being un-submissive, it’s her duty, as she has also vowed to respect him. For how can she respect a husband who is lacking in self-respect?