Category: Men’s Topics

It’s Better to Use Porn Than Cheat on My Wife…

It’s Better to Use Porn Than Cheat on My Wife…

It is no secret that porn use is rampant in the Church.  Estimates are between 50-70% of Christian men use it daily. The effects of chronic porn use, or porn addiction, on the brain...

Men For God Conference 2015

Men For God Conference 2015

Did you hear the one about a Canadian, a Malawian, an American and a Zambian who all walked into a church? Turns out a conference broke out! This past weekend I attended the Men...

Dad Advice: Stop Playing the Tough Guy

Dad Advice: Stop Playing the Tough Guy

  “Code Blue ER Trauma 1”   Came the announcement over the PA system. It was 7:15 am on Christmas eve day, and I had just started my shift at the hospital.  I was already assisting...

Dad Advice: Make, “Mud and the Blood and the Beer” Memories.

Dad Advice: Make, “Mud and the Blood and the Beer” Memories.

The earliest fond memory I have of my dad is of him sitting on my bed next to me, strumming his guitar and singing, “A Boy Named Sue.” I still distinctly remember the phrase,...

Will God Get it Wrong?  Where is the Line Between Hard Work & Trusting?

Will God Get it Wrong? Where is the Line Between Hard Work & Trusting?

Sometimes readers send me emails and ask me questions. I do my best to answer them, or refer them to someone who can. But sometimes I have a question the same as someone who...

I am Tired and Grumpy

I am Tired and Grumpy

I am tired and grumpy. I am working evening shift right now.  My days are long and my nights are short.  I am running on little sleep, I don’t see my wife except for...

I am Really Questioning My Marriage Right Now

I am Really Questioning My Marriage Right Now

From Anonymous: ” My Husband is short tempered and usually is angry at me and our kids… (a list of other character defects, sins and shortcomings) I am really questioning my marriage right now, if he is the person I...

Father’s Day (by Rev. Abel Pol)

Father’s Day (by Rev. Abel Pol)

This Father’s Day post is by a special guest blogger.  My Pastor, Rev. Abel Pol, who just recently became a pastor and a father in the past year, was gracious enough to lend his...

Guys It’s Time to “Rise Up!”

Guys It’s Time to “Rise Up!”

One of my passions is to encourage men rise up to their calling to be godly husbands and fathers.  There is little that thrills me more than a man asking me how to start...

The Bridegroom Never Walked Out on His Bride

The Bridegroom Never Walked Out on His Bride

This weekend I attended the Men of Integrity Conference.  It was a wonderful 2 days of fellowship prayer, praise and learning with other Christian men.  I rekindled some old friendships, got to finally meet...